You must know that you are a Woman of Influence, you carry the distinction of God’s strength and favor on your life. You are clothe with His dignity and covered with His love. There is such an extraordinary grace upon your life—when you walk into a room, you cause heads to turn and you command attention, not to be bashful but because the anointing that is on your life makes the difference. When others look at you they see the glow of the Father in you. Many people look at you and envy you, but they don’t know your story. Your times of be scarred and marred by life, no one sees and knows but God in His faithfulness remembered you and carved out your name with a success story. We are loved by God that made us in His image and likeness and He told us we are Fearfully and Wonderfully made. So, why can’t we get along and just love each other. Girlfriend Let’s Talk about it:

Why do we criticize the sister that is putting in the time and trying to get up? As sisters we should be our sisters keeper and covering, not the back stabber that creates drama and unnecessary pain in her life. Keep your heart pure towards your sister, pour into her what you would like to be poured into you. If you would not treat yourself unkind, you don’t treat your sister unkind either—you give a shoulder and love on her. This is what we should think about, “So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them.” Matthew 7:12 ESV

Why do we constantly remind the sister about her past? Girl, please don’t bring up the vomit of yesterday to your sister. If your sister was a drug addict, a prostitute or a side chick at one point but she made some changes and turned her life over to God, STOP IT, leave her alone, give her a chance to catch her breath. So, what if she is still that girl on the side just getting the ride, don’t talk about her. She is work in progress as you are! Pray daily for your sister’s deliverance and encourage her out of the lifestyle with a spirit of meekness. God will meet you in that place with her and do the work in her. This is what we should never forget, “And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.” 1 Corinthians 6:11 ESV

Why do we get jealous when another sister is getting elevated? It’s a good thing to be a GOALDigger! So, if your sister has her goals and she is being strategic in pursuing them, do not get jealous, cover your sister, wash her vision down with prayer and declare the Word of God over her. Be happy for her when the elevation comes and celebrate her, do not become resentful and hateful. Those are not the characteristics of God, when you can sincerely celebrate others, God will lift you up and place your feet on a blessed ground. This is what we should avoid, “But if you have bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast and be false to the truth. This is not the wisdom that comes down from above, but is earthly, unspiritual, demonic. For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every vile practice.” James 3:14-16 ESV

Sisters we are daughters of the Sovereign God of Heaven, we are beautiful jewels in His crown. Let us show our sisters more love and take the time to unleash your powerful WORD Bank to declare life over her and in her vision. Each of us has a mantle to walk in and a mission to accomplish and we need each other to run the race well.

Push Harder. Press Forward. Pray More.