The words you speak out of your mouth eventually becomes one with you. Being silent at times is actually wisdom, it doesn’t mean that you don’t see what is happening and you don’t hear what is being said by others. It simply means you’re taking the higher road that does not include the baggage of misery, frustrations and irritations in your spirit. Understand that you were born to have betrayers; they propel you to walk in your purpose & fulfill your destiny. If you are still struggling with the betrayal you experienced, stop for a moment and reflect on Judas. Judas betrayed Jesus for thirty pieces of silver because he was thinking about enriching himself. But what he didn’t know, is that he was causing Jesus to be set free to live in the hearts of people just like us. With the betrayal Jesus was able to fulfill the mandate that the Heavenly Father had set forth for His life.

Disappointments will happen, there is no way to escape them. They are God’s way of saying, I have got something much BIGGER for you so, don’t let your heart be troubled by the no you received. God is the Vinedresser that prunes your life, He takes you through a refining process and removes the negative roots that are present. In doing this, the good roots receive the refreshing oxygen of the Holy Spirit and are able to breathe and the bareness is removed. As the bareness gets uprooted the frustrations, limitations and irritations gets eradicated from its space and it enables the fruitfulness of God to enter your life and fuel your soul. To walk in the fullness of God’s glory and experience His fruitfulness in your life, you must walk in faith; without faith it is impossible to please God. Anyone who comes to God must believe that He exists and that He rewards those who earnestly seek after Him.

Four Tips To Turn Your Frustrations To Fruitfulness

Seek God’s GUIDANCE FIRST in every situation

The Lord says, “I will guide you along the best pathway for your life. I will advise you and watch over you.” —Psalm 32:8 NLT

Show me the right path, O Lord; point out the road for me to follow. Lead me by your truth and teach me, for you are the God who saves me. All day long I put my hope in you. —Psalm 25:4-5 NLT

TALK LESS about your disappointment and setback

Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. —Philippians 4:6 NLT

Do everything without complaining and arguing, so that no one can criticize you. Live clean, innocent lives as children of God, shining like bright lights in a world full of crooked and perverse people. Hold firmly to the word of life; then, on the day of Christ’s return, I will be proud that I did not run the race in vain and that my work was not useless. —Philippians 2:14-16 NLT

Declare the PROMISES of GOD over your situation

For the mountains may move and the hills disappear but even then my faithful love for you will remain. My covenant of blessing will never be broken,” says the Lord, who has mercy on you. —Isaiah 54:10 NLT

Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the Lord will personally go ahead of you. He will be with you; he will neither fail you nor abandon you. —Deuteronomy 31:8 NLT

Hold steadfast in FAITH and WALK in OBEDIENCE to God’s instructions

Then the way you live will always honor and please the Lord, and your lives will produce every kind of good fruit. All the while, you will grow as you learn to know God better and better. —Colossians 1:10 NLT

But when you ask him, be sure that your faith is in God alone. Do not waver, for a person with divided loyalty is as unsettled as a wave of the sea that is blown and tossed by the wind. —James 1:6 NLT